It is thought that in order to find that special someone, one must blindly go out into the world and exasperatingly search until one day out of the blue they luckily find a person that can stand to be with them. What people don’t realize is love is not only a stimulant, but a byproduct of happiness. One can be completely miserable and that special someone can bring them out of their funk, but what’s the appeal of being with someone who is unhappy with being themselves? If someone can find happiness in enjoying who they are as a person and indulging in passions that bring them joy, love will be found through these passions. So go out and do the things you love and worry about the love of others once you have perfected an appreciation and love for yourself.